Transgender Liberty

  This post isn't about a rule per se but really about the reality of our existence and the honest truth of what "Friends" and number of friends, aka "Friend Counts" really should mean.  Whether you have 2 friends in your life or you have 1000 isn't the point nor should it be unless you are trying to validate something about yourself that is missing or you are trying to monetize or weaponize a group.  From a mathematical and facts model, there are currently around 8.6 Billion people on the earth, your friend count whether its 6 or 6000 is insignificant and ultimately meaningless. Even 100,000 friends is 0.001% of humanity. The math doesn't scale in a way that gives the number any cosmic weight. Whether you have 6 or 6,000 connections, you're a rounding error against 8.6 billion.  Additionally unless you are going to contribute something timeless (a Newton, or an Einstein or a Bach, or a Davinci, you'll be forgotten days, months, maybe a few decad...

  Ok next Rule or maybe Truth? In a freedom loving country you should never be miss treated because of who you are or who you love.  It shouldn't be that way and it doesn't have to be that way. Currently we in the United States have a rot happening. sort of like pre WW2 Nazi Germany. Men being hyper-radicalized with paramilitary gear being the fashion. Women being Cowed and rights removed. And all of this being pushed by organizations whose real purpose is to create a hierarchy of control. Religious Control.  In a freedom loving country you should never be miss treated because of who you are or who you love.  There are those that would miss treat you, take your identity, your rights, your liberty away. It is happening now. Kansas has revoked citizens driver licenses because of being transgender. The Military is forcing transgender soldiers (enlisted and officers) to resign because of who they are. Not because of job performance but who they are. Citizens harassed and...

 I am living my life fully as my real identity. This conflict is resolving and I am choosing to be the hero of my story.  With Name Changes, Legal Changes, work changes, all of it.   In this time I have learned a few things. Which I will call survival and thrive rules. These rules are for transgender people specifically, but maybe they also apply to everyone? You be the judge, there is something for everyone here.  Rule #1: Life doesn't give a F... What this means is the universe has been here for billions of years. Asteroids have hit the planet multiple times leading to cataclysmic extinction events (All life DEAD!).  We have had Wars where NAZI FASCIST FUCXX decided they were better than everyone else, killing millions, 30-50 million people is a rough estimate.   Today....day to day we go about our lives, we live maybe 80 years (thats 80 times around the sun), and if we are luckly maybe 20 more. Still nothing in the scheme of things. The Sun ris...